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Wisdom Ought to be Attractive

November 29, 2024 By Peter Krol

When we hope in the right person, and listen to his instruction often, we should expect others to be attracted to do the same. Why wouldn’t they be? God is giving us garlands and pendants.

For they are a graceful garland to your head
And pendants for your neck (Prov 1:9).

My beautiful wife Erin doesn’t wear a lot of jewelry, but she does have that one pearl necklace for special occasions. I won’t go into too much detail about it, but hooo boy!

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Wisdom’s Powerful Influence

True wisdom is attractive. It is like jewelry that beautifies. It attracts others by holding up the beauty and blessings of wisdom’s path. If we are truly becoming wise, then others around us should see that wisdom and be drawn to it. You can’t keep it to yourself.

For example, I have been involved in churches where the elders are such wise and godly leaders that I make up stuff to talk about just so that I can be around them and learn from them! When I see a group of people loitering with one of those elders, I find a way to get myself in on that conversation because I know that “pearls of wisdom” will drip from his lips, sneak into my ears, and infiltrate my heart. I will become a better person simply by hanging out with those who are really wise.

Unfortunately there are often times when we (even as leaders, teachers, and parents) truly love Jesus but have stopped listening to him regularly and thus have little influence in the lives of others. Maybe we go into lecture mode and fail to draw others out (Jas 1:19-21). Perhaps we think people ought to pay attention to us because of our leadership position, when the Bible says real influence flows from our wise and godly character (1 Cor 10:32-11:1; Phm 8-10). Maybe we’ve plateaued in our walk with Christ, and we are no longer growing in wisdom. Whatever the issue is, we haven’t made the effort to become biblically wise, and then we wonder why no one listens to our opinions or why our children rebel.

Wisdom’s Attractive Influence

The greatest struggles in my marriage usually center on money issues. In our best moments, when we acquire some unexpected funds, my gut instinct is to give them away, and Erin’s gut instinct is to save them for the future (especially for our children). Both instincts are biblically informed and reasonably selfless. Yet every time the situation arises, we must make a decision on what to do. How should we go about it?

One way I could do it is to make a power play. “Well Darling, I’m the head of this household. So here is what I think we should do….” I’ve tried this method before, but it rarely results in the swoons and contented sighs I expect. Nor has she said, “I’m so glad to have such a wise husband to make these difficult decisions for me.” But other tactics have been more helpful.

  1. I try to listen to her: “If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame” (Pr 18:13).
  2. I attempt to draw out her concerns: “The purpose in a man’s heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out” (Pr 20:5).
  3. I consider first how I need to change before we can make a good decision on this issue: “Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him” (Pr 26:12).
  4. I seek to approach any faulty thinking I see in her in a way that lowers her defenses rather than raising them. This tactic requires me to know what serves her: “A brother offended is more unyielding than a strong city, and quarreling is like the bars of a castle” (Pr 18:19). For Erin, this means that I introduce any criticism with “I love you, and it’s just a small thing, but…”
  5. In the rare cases when I have actually followed through on these wise principles, she usually wants to follow my lead! “They are a graceful garland for your head and pendants for your neck” (Pr 1:9).

If you are a parent or leader of any sort, would you prefer for your children, students, or congregation members to follow your influence only when they have no other option, and then pull away from you once they do? Or would you prefer for them to be so attracted to the godly wisdom they find in you that they’re always coming back for more?

Let’s commit to trusting in Christ, seeking him daily, and transforming our world for his glory.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Attractiveness, God's Wisdom, Proverbs

Listen to Instruction

November 1, 2024 By Peter Krol

Hear, my son, your father’s instruction,
And forsake not your mother’s teaching (Prov 1:8, ESV).

Having set our hope in the right person, we are now called to do the right thing in response. In verse 8, we have the first instance of one of the most repeated commands in Proverbs 1-9: the command to hear or listen. Solomon made every effort to give us a written record of his instruction, and he calls us to hear it over and over again. Will we do it? Will we listen? Will the instruction sink down deep and become a part of us? Will it make any difference in how we live our lives?

This question is important enough for him to repeat the command incessantly. Hear my instruction (Pr 1:8a). Don’t forsake your mother’s teaching (Pr 1:8b). Make your ear attentive to wisdom (Pr 2:2a). Incline your heart to understanding (Pr 2:2b). Be attentive, that you may gain insight (Pr 4:1). Hear and accept my words (Pr 4:10). Be attentive to my wisdom (Pr 5:1). And so on.

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Notice, too, that the word “instruction” in 1:8 connects back to Proverbs 1:2, where the first purpose of Solomon’s proverbs was to help us know wisdom and instruction. The “instruction” that he refers to is not his own personal advice, but rather the instruction of God, revealed through his Word, of which Solomon is now a representative. Solomon is not asking his audience to hear and obey every personal whim of his simply because he’s the older, more experienced one among them. He is pointing them to a greater set of instructions: those that came right from the Lord and can be applied to every detail of our lives. This conclusion flows from Prov 1:7 where fools despise the Lord’s instruction, but those who are wise fear the Lord (and thus hear his instruction).

How does this apply to us? If God has put us in positions of spiritual authority over others (as parents, elders, pastors, teachers, etc.), then we should be simultaneously confident and humble in our leadership. We can be utterly confident as representatives of the God of the universe (Josh 1:5, 2 Cor 5:20). Yet we’re also humble, knowing that our instruction does not always match God’s teaching perfectly; there’s room for us to grow, even as leaders. In other words, we must never ask for unqualified obedience on the merit of nothing more than the leadership position God gave to us. For example, “You better obey me, because I’m your father!” We must always aim to be representatives of a greater authority (the Lord himself). And, only in so far as our advice is in line with God’s revealed wisdom, ought we to expect those under us to hear and obey.

A good friend of mine modeled well such confident and humble leadership when he asked his six-year old son for suggestions on how he could be a better father. The boy’s first response was, “You’re a great Dad; I don’t think you could be better.” But later in the day, after some difficult interactions between the father and another sibling, the boy came back and said, “Dad, one way you could be a better Dad is to not get angry when we make mistakes or disobey.” My point here is not that parents should do whatever their children want them to do, but that, in a context of confident and humble authority delegated by God, a leader need not be insecure about wise feedback, even from those he leads.

Jesus himself told us that Solomon’s wise advice was not the ultimate instruction for us to heed. Solomon was a picture of the Savior to come, the man who was God and who spoke only God’s own words. In answer to those who wanted Jesus to prove himself to them, he said, “The queen of the South will rise up at the judgment with this generation and condemn it, for she came from the ends of the earth to hear the wisdom of Solomon, and behold, something greater than Solomon is here” (Matt 12:42). Jesus, as God’s ultimate representative (Heb 1:1-4),repeatedly reminded people, “Truly, truly, I say to you….” As God in flesh, Jesus had no need to speak tentatively. In fact, one title for Jesus is the Word (John 1:1; Rev 19:13). Our objective in studying Proverbs is not just to listen to Solomon but, far more importantly, to make sure we are listening to Jesus.

Our default is to listen to anything but the Lord Jesus. Our own hearts whisper sweet promises of joy, fulfillment, and satisfaction in anything other than the righteousness of Jesus. The world gives apparent credibility to these promises, offering us more stuff, more pleasure, and whatever else will promise happiness. The devil prowls about seeking to destroy us, exploiting opportunities to showcase these lies and to hide from us the reality of their vicious consequences.

Thus Solomon comes back to it again and again: “Hear…listen…pay attention.” The second step on the path of wisdom is really the same as the first. We just have to keep taking it over and over again.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Authority, Instruction, Listen, Proverbs

The Fear of the Lord

October 25, 2024 By Peter Krol

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge;
Fools despise wisdom and instruction (Prov 1:7).

This verse describes the first step on the path of wisdom. We must begin by fearing the Lord. So far, so good.

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Defining the Fear of the Lord from the Text

But what does it mean to fear the Lord? Does it mean to reverence the Lord? Or does it mean to obey him? Or does it mean to be afraid of him? How should we understand the term “fear” in this verse?

The poetry here gives us a lot of help. Do you remember our brief discussion of parallelism (more here)? In this verse, we have an example of two lines that say opposite things. So, in order to help us interpret the first line, let’s look at the second line: “fools despise wisdom and instruction.” The beginning of knowledge in the first line appears to be parallel to wisdom and instruction in the second line. That much quickly makes sense.

That leaves us with fools despise contrasted with the fear of the LORD, so fearing the Lord must mean that I don’t despise wisdom or instruction!  How does that work?

Let’s consider this further. Why would a fool despise wisdom and instruction? Because he thinks he doesn’t need it. Why doesn’t he need it? Because he thinks he’s already smart enough. He doesn’t need anyone (especially the Lord) telling him what to do. He’s doing just fine on his own. As the fellow once sang, “I did it my way!”

The wise person, on the other hand, knows he isn’t wise enough yet. There’s always more room for growth, so he loves wisdom and instruction. He wants feedback. He welcomes constructive criticism. He delights in correction. Therefore he has the humility and faith to look for a true source of wisdom (which will not be himself). Ultimately, he knows that the only real source of this much-needed wisdom is God, who stores up wisdom and doles it out to the upright who walk in integrity (see Prov 2:6-7). Therefore, fearing the Lord means resting in God and trusting that he alone is wise.

The Fear of the Lord and the Gospel

We have here an example of the Good News being preached long before Jesus actually came on the scene. Solomon communicates that the most important thing to know about becoming wise, indeed the first step on the path of wisdom, is to acknowledge that you are not wise. Only the most courageous people can do such a thing. They must have nothing to prove, nothing to defend, and nothing to justify. They don’t make excuses or blame others for their own faults. They’re not touchy when conflicts arise or when relationships become awkward. These people find their security not in their own righteousness, but in the righteousness of another who died so they could have life.

Some wiseacre once quipped that Christianity is just a crutch for weak people. Others accurately responded that Christianity is actually more like a stretcher for dead people. Christians know they need all the help they can get. We’re dead meat if Jesus doesn’t rescue us. This teaching is not unique to Solomon, but is inscribed on every page of the New Testament as well. For one example, see 1 Corinthians 1:26-31:

For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.”

If we are believers in Jesus and destined for eternal life and glory, it is not because we had something to offer God. Rather, God called and chose us because he couldn’t find any bigger fools than us! He gets more glory for having drafted us into his service, and we get wisdom, righteousness, sanctification, and redemption. This is Good News.

When we hope in Jesus’ goodness, and not our own, we have taken the first step on the path of wisdom. Without this step, it is impossible to be wise. Therefore, if wisdom is a continual striving to know and do what the Bible says, the first step is to recognize that we aren’t doing it! In fact, we simply can’t do it. We need Jesus to do it for us.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Fear of the Lord, Parallelism, Proverbs

Beginning the Path of Wisdom

October 18, 2024 By Peter Krol

Why is it so difficult for me to arrive home from work at the time I promised to my wife? I love her passionately, and I have no intention to deceive or discourage her. Yet I persistently fail to arrive on time.  Not only that, but every time I do it, I have a really good reason. “I was wrapped up in this significant project that had to get completed before I left the office.” Or, “I was having a very fruitful counseling meeting, and I couldn’t just cut it short.” Or, I can achieve ultimate vindication with: “You’re rarely on time when I’m waiting for you.”

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The one thing that I find most excruciating is simply to admit, “I should have set aside what I was doing and returned home on time for dinner. Will you please forgive me? Can you also please help me figure out how I could make a better choice next time?” It feels so right to make my excuses.  But when I make excuses, I am not fearing the Lord; therefore, I am not acting wisely.

One thing we can be certain of, from both Scripture and experience, is that we are sinners by nature, and thus prone to play the fool. We need to be rescued. We are selfish blame shifters who will stop at no length to justify our own choices and values. This habit is the essence of folly. If we hope to be wise, we must tread a different path. In fact, we cannot be wise until we do.

In the last few Proverbs posts, we pieced together a definition of wisdom: a continual striving to know and do what the Bible says. In the next few posts, we’ll consider three things that enable us to begin this journey of wisdom. First, hope in the right thing: the Good News of Jesus, not your own goodness (Prov 1:7). Second, do the right thing: listen to the Lord, not your own heart (Prov 1:8). Third, help others do the right thing: be an agent of godly influence, not another boring authority figure (Prov 1:9).

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Blameshifting, God's Wisdom, Path, Proverbs

Proverbs Purpose #5: To Master the Word of Wisdom

October 11, 2024 By Peter Krol

To understand a proverb and a saying,
The words of the wise and their riddles (Prov 1:6, ESV).

In Proverbs 1:1-6, Solomon gives four purposes for his book. We’ve already discussed the first, second third and fourth. The fifth purpose comes in verse 6.

At first glance, it might appear that this statement simply repeats what came before in verse 2: “to understand words of insight.” We’ve already established that Solomon wants to train us to recognize wisdom when we see it.

But to understand how this fourth purpose advances the train of thought, consider what Solomon is saying when you put the entire sentence together again: “The Proverbs of Solomon [are]…to understand a proverb.” In other words, a purpose of Proverbs is to help us understand proverbs. As one of my seminary professors once said, “the more you understand Proverbs, the more proverbs you understand.”

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Have you ever read through the whole book of Proverbs before? There are some weird things in there!

Weird Example #1: Whoever winks the eye causes trouble,
But a babbling fool will come to ruin (Prov 10:10).

Weird Example #2: The light of the eyes rejoices the heart,
And good news refreshes the bones (Prov 15:30).

Weird Example #3: The sluggard says, ‘There is a lion in the road!
There is a lion in the streets (Prov 26:13)!

Weird Example #4: The leech has two daughters;
‘Give’ and ‘Give,’ they cry (Prov 30:15a).

Often, to help us understand strange proverbs like these, other proverbs come to the rescue. Proverbs 6:12-15 helps with example #1 by explaining that winking has to do with causing disunity. Many proverbs help with example #2 by defining “the light of the eyes” as an inward vitality (Prov 29:13) that results from a righteous life (Prov 13:9), expressing itself on our faces (Prov 15:13). Proverbs 22:13 helps with example #3 by explaining that the “lion” is simply a fabricated excuse not to go to work. Proverbs 30:15b-16 helps with example #4 by illustrating for us the warning signs of the type of needy person who won’t be helped by our charity.

My point is this: one purpose of Proverbs is to help us to master other proverbs.

Or, the more we understand Proverbs, the more proverbs we will understand.  It doesn’t stop with Proverbs either; the more wisdom you glean from Proverbs, the more you will understand the rest of the Bible as well. And the better you truly understand the main points of the Scriptures, the more you will know Jesus, for they all speak of him (Luke 24:44-49, John 5:39-40, 1 Peter 1:10-12). The more you know Jesus, the wiser you become, for he is our wisdom (1 Cor 1:30). In other words, the fifth purpose of Proverbs is to help you master the word of wisdom (see also 2 Tim 2:15). We are tempted to define “wise” and “foolish” however we want, but the Bible must be our measuring rod on these categories. Let’s add this point to our definition of wisdom.

Wisdom is:

  1. Knowing the right thing to do in any particular situation.
  2. Recognizing those who promote the right thing to do.
  3. Doing it.
  4. Always improving at both knowing and doing.
  5. Deriving all of our knowing and doing from the Bible.

A simpler way to phrase this whole definition could be: Wisdom is a continual striving to know and do what the Bible says.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Analogy of Scripture, Bible, Intertexuality, Proverbs

Proverbs Purpose #4: To Transform People

October 4, 2024 By Peter Krol

To give prudence to the simple,
Knowledge and discretion to the youth –
Let the wise hear and increase in learning,
And the one who understands obtain guidance (Prov 1:4-5, ESV).

A Push in the Right Direction

We’ve already seen that Solomon wrote Proverbs so we might know wisdom (partly by recognizing those who speak it) and live wisely. Solomon’s third purpose for writing is found in verses 4 and 5. He desires nothing less than the transformation of the simple person (“the youth”) into a wise person (who has “prudence”), and of a wise person (“one who understands”) into a wiser person (one who will “increase in learning”).

Remember that the simple person is the one at the crossroads. This person has not yet decided which fork in the road to take: the one moving toward the Lord (wisdom), or the one moving away from the Lord (folly). Solomon here offers a push in the right direction. His proverbs will help us to move toward wisdom.

Remember also that the wise person is not someone who has achieved enlightenment or some sort of spiritual heightening. Rather, the wise person is simply moving in the right direction. If you are moving closer and closer to the Lord, you are wise. Solomon’s proverbs will inject supplements into your tank so the fuel can burn cleaner, last longer, and move you down the road more quickly.

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How to Respond

Some people should be comforted by this third purpose. It means you can start where you are and just move forward from here. It’s okay if you’re not as far down the road as that other person. What matters is that you get moving in the right direction. You shouldn’t sit still, lamenting the fact that you’re not as wise or mature in Christ as you should be or would like to be. You should just do something. Anything. If this description connects with you, then Proverbs 4:18 can be your theme verse: “the path of the righteous is like the light of dawn, which shines brighter and brighter until the full day.” You haven’t hit the sunrise yet, so just keep moving down the path.

Other people need to be rebuked by this third purpose. It means that you have tried to get by with being “simple” for far too long. You’ve been a Christian for 10, 20, 30 years or more, and you’re still content to have minimal involvement, minimal influence, and minimal responsibility. You’re happy to receive the church’s resources, investment, service, and instruction; but you’re unwilling to be a part of giving resources, investment, service, or instruction for the good of others. This attitude is simply unacceptable for a Christian called to wisdom.

It should be assumed that different people have different capacities and rates of acceleration in their growth in wisdom. That fact is not in question here. Rather, the chief question is are you accelerating at all or just sitting still in your walk with Christ? You can only remain simple for so long before you become a fool; but the proverbs extend much hope that it doesn’t have to be that way. So let’s add this new component to our definition.

Wisdom is:

  1. Knowing the right thing to do in any particular situation.
  2. Recognizing those who promote the right thing to do.
  3. Doing it.
  4. Always improving at both knowing and doing.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Fool, Growth, Proverbs, Simple, Transformation, Wise

Proverbs Purpose #3: To Live Wisely

September 27, 2024 By Peter Krol

To receive instruction in wise dealing,
In righteousness, justice, and equity (Prov 1:3, ESV)

We’ve already seen that the first purpose of Proverbs is to know wisdom, and the second is to recognize those who speak it. Solomon’s third purpose now gets very practical.

We are not simply to know true facts about God, people, or the world. It also is not sufficient that we be capable of pointing out actual examples of wisdom or foolishness in the culture around us. Rather, we must be people who live out of the wisdom given to us.

Where verse 2 focuses on the mental component of wisdom, verse 3 focuses on the moral component of wisdom. Wisdom that remains in the realm of ideas, factoids, or experiential principles is not truly wisdom. It must instead seep out of our fingertips and infect everything we do. It translates to action (wise dealing): doing the right thing before God (righteousness), responding appropriately to circumstances (justice), and treating other people without favoritism (equity).

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Taking what God teaches us and putting it into practice is a major theme throughout Scripture. Prior to Solomon’s day, Moses and David had already declared it.

Moses: “Hear therefore, O Israel, and be careful to do them [the commandments], that it may go well with you” (Deut 6:3).

David: “O Lord, who shall sojourn in your tent? Who shall dwell on your holy hill? He who walks blamelessly and does what is right and speaks truth in his heart” (Psalm 15:1-2)

After Solomon’s day, the New Testament epistles frequently repeat it. For example:

Paul: “For it is not the hearers of the law who are righteous before God, but the doers of the law who will be justified” (Rom 2:13).

Author of Hebrews: “But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil” (Heb 5:14).

James: “Be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves” (James 1:22).

Peter: “Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct” (1 Peter 1:13-15).

John: “Whoever says ‘I know him’ but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him” (1 John 2:4).

Most importantly of all, it was a central theme of Jesus’ teaching.

“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (Matt 7:24).

“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I tell you?” (Luke 6:46).

In every one of these verses, notice how God expects his people not only to know the truth, but also to put it into practice. The measure of wisdom is found in its follow-through.

Are you becoming a different person based on the truth you hear from the Bible? Can you pinpoint things you have addressed and grown in over the last year? Are there character issues you would like to tackle in the coming year? Would others who know you well say that you make wiser decisions now than you used to? Are you more pleasant, more insightful, more honorable, and more Christ-like than ever before?

Let’s add this new factor to our definition of wisdom. We must take into account both knowing and doing the truth.

Wisdom is:

  1. Knowing the right thing to do in any particular situation.
  2. Recognizing those who promote the right thing to do.
  3. Doing it.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: God's Wisdom, Knowing and Doing, Proverbs

Proverbs Purpose #2: To Recognize Those Who Speak Wisdom

September 20, 2024 By Peter Krol

To understand words of insight (Prov 1:2)

Before we examine this statement further, a brief explanation of Hebrew poetry is in order. The Old Testament poets chiefly relied on a literary device called parallelism, which means that each unit of thought (usually one verse) contains two or more short lines that generally say either a similar thing or a different thing.[1] The poet’s intention is for the lines to be compared with each other in order to arrive at their meaning. As Waltke states, “Proverbs cannot be interpreted correctly without asking the question: ‘How are the versets [the two lines] related to one another?’”[2] Thus the reader should be careful not to force the lines apart and interpret them each in isolation (we’ll especially see the impact of this method when we reach verse 7).

So in Proverbs 1:2, we have two parallel lines that say similar things:

To know wisdom and instruction,
To understand words of insight.

The first half of the verse focuses on the abstract concept of wisdom; Solomon wants us to recognize certain facts as containing “wisdom.” The second half of the verse focuses on the concrete communication of wisdom; Solomon wants us to recognize, in any given interaction with other people, whether they are speaking words of wisdom or not.

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For example, when you see an advertisement on television, is it commending some wise behavior to you, or is it simply playing on your anxiety or passions in order to make a buck? When you speak with a friend, should you take her advice on a matter or respectfully decline it? As you sit in your class, can you tell whether the instructor is speaking truth in line with God’s perspective, or merely soliciting your servile obeisance to folly through bombastically sesquipedalian obfuscation? (In other words, is the prof leading you astray by impressing you with big words?)

In short, Solomon aims to equip us first to know what is wise and what is foolish so we can then identify whether a particular person in a particular situation is communicating wisdom or foolishness to us. In other words, he wants to train people to know wisdom.

Wisdom is: Knowing whether any particular counsel is the right thing to do in any particular situation.


[1]I intend this as a gross oversimplification to keep things simple. For a far more nuanced discussion of Hebrew parallelism, see this article by Jeff Benner.

[2]Waltke, Proverbs 1-15, p.45.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Discernment, God's Wisdom, Parallelism, Proverbs

Proverbs Purpose #1: To Know Wisdom

September 13, 2024 By Peter Krol

“Why should I read this book?” is what’s on my mind any time a friend recommends a book to me. I’m busy enough already, and I hear more recommendations than I know what to do with. Solomon knows my pain. He cares, and right up front he gives us reason to care about his book. In the next few Proverbs posts we’ll examine Solomon’s five purposes for writing Proverbs, and along the way we’ll piece together a definition of wisdom from each building block. As we progress, we’ll see why we should care about wisdom as much as Solomon does.

To begin with, observe the five-fold repetition of the word “to” in Prov 1:2-7. Solomon completes his sentence from the first verse: “The proverbs of Solomon … (are) to know wisdom (Prov 1:2), to understand words of insight (Prov 1:2), to receive instruction (Prov 1:3), to give prudence (Prov 1:4-5), and to understand a proverb (Prov 1:6).” By means of these “to” phrases, Solomon lists his reasons for writing.

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To Know Wisdom and Instruction (Prov 1:2a)

The first use of “to” is found in the first half of Prov 1:2. Solomon writes these proverbs so we might “know wisdom and instruction.” He wants to communicate facts about topics such as God, people, and the world, in order to equip us to believe the truth and reject error.

For example, is God near to us or far from us (Prov 3:32-35)? Can we expect him to care about our lives or not (Prov 16:9, 20:24)? Is he trustworthy (Prov 3:5-6), righteous (Prov 15:9), and just (Prov 29:26)?

What about people? How do we persuade them to believe the truth about God (Prov 16:23)? How do we interact with others who are as selfish and arrogant as we ourselves are (Prov 18:1)? If I love God, what should my business practices (Prov 16:11), love life (Prov 22:14), and social activism (Prov 28:27) look like? How do people change (Prov 4:23)?

In addition, there is the world. What is a godly perspective on animal rights (Prov 12:10)? How can I skillfully use the resources given to me by God to develop and produce more (Prov 14:4), without just destroying what I’ve already got (Prov 21:20)? What perspective should I have toward material goods (Prov 3:9-10)?

Knowing wisdom and instruction involves much more than the ability to answer these questions correctly on a test. We must be able to translate these objective truths into the choices of every moment. We do that by first believing these truths, and then insightfully applying them in any specific situation. For example, anyone with a smattering of biblical education can answer the question “can God do all things” (Prov 16:9)? However, when the little ones are frightened by a thunder storm, a wise parent will confidently connect their experience with the truth: “Pray with me, Bobby: Jesus, please help. I’m scared. Thank you for taking care of me. Amen.”

Remember that proverbs deal with the mundane and messy details of life. Their intention is not only to load us with doctrines or ethical ideals. Rather, they aim to connect those doctrines and ethical ideals with the day-to-day situations we face. Therefore from this first purpose we can unravel the first part of Solomon’s definition of wisdom.

Wisdom is: Knowing the right thing to do in any particular situation.

This post was first published in 2012.

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Definition, God's Wisdom, Knowledge, Proverbs

Why ‘Proverbs Aren’t Promises’ is Still Misleading

September 6, 2024 By Peter Krol

A few weeks ago, I republished, with some editing, a 2016 post about why the conventional Bible study advice that “proverbs aren’t promises” is misleading. Then Pastor Paul Carter interacted with my piece on The Gospel Coalition Canada site, concluding that “proverbs aren’t promises” is true after all.

I would encourage you to check out Carter’s article, as he defends the conventional wisdom and illuminates a few places where my argument is not as clear as it ought to be. Below, I will seek to rectify that. But first let me point out what I appreciate about Carter’s piece, along with how important our definitions are.

Substantial Agreement

First, while Carter makes use of scholarship to assist his arguments, he primarily looks to the Scripture itself for guidance. For this I am grateful. He takes pains to highlight the wisdom literature’s own view of the world, especially life in a fallen world.

Second, while holding to the maxim that proverbs aren’t promises, Carter makes sure to also state that “Proverbs are true and can be trusted entirely.” And that “They are truths you can build your life upon.” I affirm these conclusions wholeheartedly. I believe that these truths are in tension with the claim that “proverbs aren’t promises” on account of definitions, but more on that below. I’m just grateful up front that Carter recognizes the need to be explicit about the trustworthiness of the Proverbs.

Third, Carter’s argument is almost entirely based on the nature of life in a fallen world. And I would agree with him on his analysis of the wisdom literature’s description of our fallen existence: “Sometimes the righteous get what the wicked deserve and the wicked get what the righteous deserve. I’m not sure how anyone living on planet earth could deny that.” Agreed. In no way am I denying that reality.

Finally, Carter affirms the long-term view taken by the Proverbs: “Proverbs are true and can be trusted, but because the world is fallen, a person may have to wait until the Final Judgment and the resurrection for the full enjoyment of that truth and the full possession of the rewards associated therewith.” I fully agree with the fact that the truth of proverbs is often not fulfilled in the present age. Now strikingly, Carter believes that “promise” is the wrong label for this “full enjoyment of that truth and the full possession of the rewards associated therewith” that comes in the Final Judgment.

It is on that point of labels and definitions that my disagreement chiefly lies. So let me turn to that.

What is a Bible Promise, Really?

If by “promise,” we mean a deistic, impersonal mechanism, by which certain inputs infallibly result in guaranteed outputs, then I would agree that proverbs aren’t promises. And all over Carter’s article, it is clear that this is what he means by “promise.”

  • “Is the Bible promising that all who work hard will be rich? Is the Bible promising that all who are wise will receive honour? Or is it stating general principles?”
  • “Sometimes things happen that our view of the world would not lead us to expect, which is why, many would argue, it is best not to refer to proverbs as promises.”
  • “it is best not to think of Proverbs as ‘promises’ lest that phraseology lead one to expect immediate and inevitable fulfillment in this life.”

So for Carter, a “promise” is:

  1. A universal and perhaps impersonal mechanism for rewarding certain inputs (such that, for example, all who work hard will get rich and all who are wise will receive honor).
  2. Something that always delivers the very thing our view of the world would lead us to expect.
  3. Something that creates an expectation of immediate and inevitable fulfillment in this life.

It’s as though God embedded into the source code of the universe a touch screen kiosk for ordering fast food. Just input your diligent labor, and pre-programmed robotic servers will bring riches and wealth right to your table.

Again, if that is what is meant by “promise,” then I agree that proverbs aren’t promises.

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However, the biggest problem here is that this is not what a promise is in the Bible. And that is the basis for my entire argument that “proverbs aren’t promises” is misleading.

In the Bible, a promise is:

  • Contextual: Promises are made to particular people at particular times and for particular reasons, and will therefore have differing (or no) application to people other than the intended recipient(s). It takes a lot of work for us to establish whether, how much, and how a Bible promise applies to us today. For example, “When your feet enter the city, the child shall die” (1 Kings 14:12) is a clear promise from God, but not for anyone reading this post.
  • Covenantal: Promises are made within the context of a person’s or group’s contractual relationship with God and cannot be treated as impersonal deistic mechanisms for securing a desired reward. For example, Deuteronomy 28 promises to Israel, in extravagant detail, many blessings for obeying the law and many curses for disobeying the law. These promises are alluded to frequently in the rest of the OT history as reasons why Israel stands or falls before God in her covenantal relationship with him.
  • Conditional: Not all, but many of the Bible’s promises are contingent on belief, obedience, or both, and therefore cannot be treated as universal guarantees. For example, “If you will walk before me, as David your father walked … then I will establish your royal throne over Israel forever, as I promised…” (1 Kings 9:4-5).

The promises of the book of Proverbs fit squarely within these characteristics. The assurances and predicted rewards or curses (I’m not sure what else to call them besides “promises”) are offered to the young nobility of Israel in the kingdom period [contextual], on the basis of their fear of the Lord (Prov 1:7, 9:10) and their standing in his steadfast love and faithfulness (Prov 3:3) [covenantal], and on condition of walking faithfully on a straight path away from self-reliance and toward Yahweh their God (see Proverbs 1-9, which is the foundation for the practicals in the rest of the book, and especially Prov 3:5-6) [conditional].

No, the assurances of Proverbs are not mathematical functions within a universal, deistic machine. Yes, the assurances of Proverbs function just like the rest of the Bible’s promises. We can come up with exceptions to the assurances of Deuteronomy 28 on account of the world’s fallenness. But nobody thereby concludes that “covenant blessings and curses aren’t promises.” So why do we make that claim about the Proverbs? Yes, they are promises. We just need to define “promise” the way the Bible does.

I’m grateful to Carter for his article, which illuminated the need for me to clarify this presupposition of my argument. My concern with the maxim “proverbs aren’t promises” lies not with what it says about proverbs but with what it says about promises.

Solving One Pastoral Problem Only to Create More Worse Ones

The conventional wisdom that “proverbs aren’t promises” always appears to arise from one of two observations:

  1. People use Prov 22:6 to guilt-trip hurting parents with wayward children.
  2. People are confused by how Prov 26:4-5 appear to provide contradictory guidance.

Both of those concerns are real pastoral problems. Yet when we address them with a sweeping hermeneutical solution (that proverbs aren’t promises), the collateral damage is even greater than the presenting problem.

First, if it is true that proverbs aren’t promises, then it must follow that none of the following particular proverbs are promises:

  • “The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous runs into it and is safe” (Prov 18:10).
  • “Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him” (Prov 30:5).
  • “Better is a little with righteousness than great revenues with injustice” (Prov 16:8).

Many more examples could be given. And if none of those are promises (the way the Bible defines “promise”), where does that leave us? Under the guidance offered by the conventional principle, as Bruce Waltke recognized decades ago, a psychologically well person could scarcely trust God.

Second, if it is true that proverbs aren’t promises, how can we even say we expect their fulfillment in the Final Judgment or the new heavens and new earth? Isn’t it the case that many of the Bible’s promises are not fully true—i.e. we will experience apparent exceptions to them—until the age to come? “The wolf shall dwell with the lamb, and the leopard shall lie down with the young goat … They shall not hurt or destroy in all my holy mountain” (Isaiah 11:6-9). Carter claims that “promise” is the wrong label for truths that “will be resisted and delayed until the Final Judgment.” So what, then, should we call those assurances in other parts of the Bible that will be resisted and delayed until That Day?

Third, if the assurances of Proverbs can be refuted by appealing to self-evident exceptions to them in a fallen world, what is to prevent us from approaching any of the Bible’s promises the same way? For example, God promised to David that his son would sit on his throne forever (2 Sam 7:13). It is self-evident that Solomon did not reign forever, providing an exception to the larger promise of David’s dynasty. Does that mean that 2 Sam 7:13 is not a promise, just like “proverbs aren’t promises”? (Psalm 89 wrestles with a very similar question.) Of course not; we now know God was talking most fully about the Messiah. But this takes us back to the previous point: If the fulfillment of the promise delays until a future age, does that make it no longer a promise?

Fourth, if the assurances of Proverbs can be refuted by appealing to exceptions that violate our expectations of how the world ought to work (something to which Carter appeals numerous times in his article), what is to prevent us from approaching any of the Bible’s promises the same way? For example, “If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it” (John 14:14). But my experience has shown numerous times when Jesus did not do what I asked in his name; this violates my expectation about how Jesus said the world ought to work. Does that mean this can’t be a promise, just like “proverbs aren’t promises”? Of course not; there must something contextual, covenantal, and/or conditional that I must grasp from John’s gospel to help me overcome the pastoral problem of this verse. After all, promises are not universal, deistic mechanisms for attaining what I want.

Fifth, when the guidance that “proverbs aren’t promises” sinks in, people lose interest in the book of Proverbs. If all I find here are “general principles” and “probabilities” which may or may not be true in my life — and there’s no way of predicting whether they will be true in my life or not — then why would I pay any attention to this book at all? The book of Proverbs used to be core to Christian discipleship, as evidenced in part by its inclusion with the Psalms in the Gideons’ “New Testaments.” These days, I find it rare to come across Christians who have any real familiarity with the book of Proverbs at all. There’s just not much motivation to soak in this book when you’ve been told you can’t bank on what you find there. And in our generation, we sure would benefit from soaking in this book to guide us through the mess we’re facing.

To be fair, Carter explicitly denies the idea that the truths of Proverbs can’t be trusted. But he is not clear about how “proverbs aren’t promises” and “they are truths you can build your life upon” can both be true, when denying the latter conclusion follows directly downstream from affirming the former.

My point is simply that we create far more serious pastoral problems when we apply a sweeping hermeneutical solution to the presenting set of pastoral problems. This, I believe, is the very concern of which Dr. Waltke tries to warn us in his commentary.

A Word About Dr. Waltke

Carter is not the first critic to claim that I have misread Bruce Waltke’s commentary, which I quoted in my original article. But the criticism goes like this:

  • You invoke Waltke in support of your claim that ‘proverbs aren’t promises’ is misleading.
  • But look at all these other places where Waltke clearly denies that proverbs are universal, deistic mechanisms for attaining reward.
  • Therefore, you have misread him (or not allowed for his nuance).

This is to miss the point of my citation of Dr. Waltke. I do not claim that Dr. Waltke supports a deistic, mechanistic view of the promises of Proverbs. Nor do I argue myself in favor of a deistic, mechanistic view of the promises of Proverbs.

All that Dr. Waltke is saying, to which I am appealing, is that to solve the pastoral problems of Proverbs with a sweeping hermeneutical maxim that “proverbs aren’t promises but probabilities” is “stating the matter badly.” By the way we have chosen to frame the hermeneutical principle, we have created a host of “theological, practical, and psychological problems” that are even worse than the original matter we set out to address.

So again, I deny that proverbs are universal, deistic, mechanisms for attaining reward in this present life. But I strenuously urge us all not to frame our correction with the language of “proverbs aren’t promises.” By doing that, we create even worse problems for the people we’re trying to help.

What’s at Stake

I am not arguing, as Pastor Carter claims at the start of his article, against the overstatement of a valid hermeneutical principle. I am arguing against even the bare statement of such a faulty principle, even though the principle is well-intended to address a real problem.

To continue repeating the oft-repeated maxim that “proverbs aren’t promises” is to throw into question all of the Bible’s promises, because the same arguments against proverbs being promises can be directly applied to promises from other genres of the Bible. That is why the statement “proverbs aren’t promises” is misleading.

But that which truly concerns Pastor Carter, along with the myriad other proponents of the conventional guidance, is something with which I fully agree. Proverbs are not mechanistic guarantees for life in this fallen world. Can we not simply frame the matter that way, and do away with the label of “not promises”?

Filed Under: Proverbs Tagged With: Interpretation, Misinterpretation, Paul Carter, Promises, Proverbs

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