Why We Harm Others (Prov. 3:31)

In seeking wise humility, we must not pridefully withhold good or plan evil against others.  To help us, the center of Proverbs 3:27-35 illuminates our motivations.

Do not envy a man of violence
And do not choose any of his ways (Prov. 3:31, ESV)

If God opposes the proud so severely, why would anyone ever choose such a path?  Because, Solomon reasons, we are tempted to envy violent people.

Derrick Davis (2008), Creative Commons

Derrick Davis (2008), Creative Commons

Remember our discussion about violent people from Proverbs 1:10-19?  The attraction to violence is that it will gain us more stuff.  And more stuff means improved security and increased community, or so we think.

We love ourselves enough to believe anything just to get a little satisfaction.  We’ll even believe that “love your neighbor as yourself” means that we first have to love ourselves.  Nowhere, however, does the Bible command us to love ourselves; it assumes that we already do.  Whenever we put ourselves at the center of the universe, we are choosing to act like violent men.  The antidote to such a poisonous choice is to fear the Lord, who really is at the center of the universe.  “Let not your heart envy sinners, but continue in the fear of the Lord all the day” (Prov. 23:17).

If you’re anything like me, you may have a hard time with this teaching.  I want to love people; I really do.  I’ll do whatever God wants me to do for most of the people in the world.  There are just a select few whom I can’t love.  In particular, there are those who have hurt me deeply, and those who don’t deserve my trust because of some failure on their part.

Next week, we’ll see how the New Testament applies Proverbs 3 to these situations.

Write Chapter Summaries

Big Bible

Ed Mitchell (2007), Creative Commons

The Bible is a big book. It’s easy to get lost or tired or – honestly – bored.

Some people love digging deep. They’ll read a few verses, chew on them, pray over them, and feel closer to God as a result.

Not me.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m all in favor of exploring the details. But I’m not naturally motivated that way.

I’m more of a reader. I like to read many different things. I get bored with too much of one thing.

Regardless of whether you are more of a chewer or a devourer, the Bible is still a big book. How do you keep tabs on the big picture even while processing the parts? How do you read each section in light of the whole?

I have an idea for you. This is not the only right way to do it, but it’s one tool I’ve found especially helpful.

Write Chapter Summaries

Get yourself a notebook.

On the first page, write “Genesis” at the top and the numbers 1 to 50 down the side (you’ll probably have to go on to the second page to get 50 lines).

Then, as you read Genesis, stop at the end of each chapter. Consider each chapter and write a one-line summary next to the number for that chapter.

For example:

  1. creation of the world
  2. creation of man & woman
  3. fall into sin
  4. Cain murders Abel and fathers a line of ungodly people; Seth replaces him
  5. genealogy from Adam to Noah

And so on, down the page.

Then start a new page for Exodus. Continue through the books of the Bible until you have a summary of every chapter in the Bible.

Why are Chapter Summaries Helpful?

Although content summaries are not the same thing as the author’s main points, they still have a helpful place.

  1. They help you to process what you’ve read.
  2. They help you to retain what you’ve read.
  3. They increase your familiarity with the Bible.
  4. They record God’s marvelous works throughout history (Ps 96:3).
  5. As you read back over the summaries, they give you a sense of how a book of the Bible unfolds.
  6. As you read back over the summaries, they give you a sense of how the whole Bible fits together.
  7. They document what you’re learning about the Lord.

An Example

Over the course of my life, I’ve done this exercise 3 times. Each time I gain more insight, which gives me greater delight in the Lord

I enjoy looking back over my notes to see how my understanding deepened.

For example, here are the summaries I wrote for 2 Peter in 1999:

1. God’s given everything we need –> qualities of fruitfulness; Peter direct eyewitness.

2. False teachers will rise up –> last state (betraying Christ) worse than first (not knowing Christ).

3. Remember words spoken –> day of judgment, elements burned up.

And here are the 2 Peter summaries I wrote in 2008:

1. God’s promises through the prophets will be fulfilled in Jesus & in our character.

2. False teachers deny Jesus; the Lord won’t let them get away.

3. Reminder of word of prophets & apostles; we can bank on promises to be fulfilled in the future!

These two sets are not drastically different. They simply show a maturation in my understanding. The second set is more clear and focused than the first set.

Sometimes I return to these notebooks when I study a book of the Bible. They give me a starting point from which to hone my insights and build my understanding.

Questions: How helpful have you found exercises like summarizing chapters to be? What other ideas have worked for you?

What the Bible Says About Using the Bible

Unlocking the Bible recently posted an excellent, short article about what the Bible says about how to use the Bible. A few things on the list were no surprise: read it, believe it, preach it. A few things surprised me, however: receive it, … [Continue reading]

God Opposes the Proud (Prov. 3:32-35)

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Wisdom is humble.  Humility means putting others first.  But why does it matter? For the devious person is an abomination to the Lord, But the upright are in his confidence. The Lord's curse is on the house of the wicked, But he blesses the … [Continue reading]

Teach Bible Study to a 4-Year-Old

Building the walls of Jerusalem

OIA Bible study works for anyone of any age, because it simply codifies how all communication works. In another post, I gave some tips for teaching it to 2-year-old children. Now we graduate up to the 4-year-olds. I've taught the 4-5 year-old Sunday … [Continue reading]

Theology is Never an Academic Exercise

Mike Riccardi recently posted a great article at The Cripplegate on the book of Philippians. He shows how studying theology and growing in virtue are inseparable. Although Riccardi's point is well-made, I commend his article to you more for his … [Continue reading]

Do Not Plan Evil (Prov. 3:29-30)

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In teaching about wisdom and humility, Solomon’s first warning was against keeping what we have; this one is against taking what we want. Do not plan evil against your neighbor, Who dwells trustingly beside you. Do not contend with a man for no … [Continue reading]

What Materials Do You Use?

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I serve with an organization that focuses on discipleship. When people hear our vision for training college students to mature in faith and impart it to others who can teach others (2 Tim 2:1-2), one question inevitably hijacks the conversation. So … [Continue reading]

How to Win Your City

The Gospel Coalition recently published a guest post I wrote called "How to Win Your City." It's a study of Daniel 1, explaining how to live as strangers and exiles in our communities. World-changers are a rare breed. But they don't have to be. … [Continue reading]

Do not Withhold Good (Prov. 3:27-28), Part 2: Application

Sean Gannan (2008), Creative Commons

There are many ways we can apply last week’s teaching on humility, but two especially come to mind for our generation.  We must not withhold truth in confrontation, and we must not withhold life in evangelism. Confrontation Let’s admit it: … [Continue reading]